Between who you are and who you could be

Everybody's watching you now

I met one of my closest friends, online! Actually, I met him in Second Life, many years ago, while I was “almost” partnered to my first sl partner, Shawn. Idk if any of you remember him but, that guy, -destroyed me-, and my best friend was there for me through that.

We are always there for each other. No matter if we are fighting, or need a break away from each other, we always find our ways back to each other.

I dare you to move

He and I had a song. It is called, I’ll stand by you, The Pretenders, however, since we have been friends for so long, I decided we needed an extra one.

One that I felt would be perfect for us because we always seem to challenge each other. It’s like we were made to aggravate each other. Or build each other up, when needed.

So, the song I chose, that I feel is perfect, is I dare you to move by, Switchfoot.

Between how it is and how it should be

The verse I love, that honestly makes me think of our friendship over the years is this…

Maybe redemption has stories to tell
Maybe forgiveness is right where you fell
Where can you run to escape from yourself?
Where you gonna go?
Where you gonna go?
Salvation is here

Welcome to the Planet

Now, you tell me… Is that not perfect?

We never dated. We never had that sort of relationship. We never partnered. Though I had been tempted in the past just so my partner box would not be empty. That was many many years ago.

We just… get each other.

I bet, if we lived closer to each other, we likely would have been arrested by now for trying to kill each other, with the amount that we piss each other off but, in the end, we love each other. He knows it. I know it. Hell, anyone that knows us personally knows it.

Welcome to resistance

He is more than a friend. More than a brother. He is like, the darker side of myself. We will always be friends. No one will ever destroy that.

I hope he knows how much he means to me. I think he does…

And I hope that all of you out there in lala land, have a friend like this.

The most important advice I have for anyone that doesn’t but, maybe has someone in their lives that they would love to have that sort of relationship with… Don’t expect them to be perfect. Accept them completely. Their good side, the bad side, good days, and bad. And don’t try to force your opinions on them.

You are there to give each other advice. Support each other and be there for each other when the other wants to vent. It doesn’t matter if you agree with them or not… they need someone to talk too… and you are their friend. Accept it.

Anyway… I just wanted to share my SL friendship with you.

I would share his name but, he doesn’t want people to disrupt his sl, and I know, as well as him, if I were to put his name, you all would be googling, sl searching, lol and some of you may try to add him. lol Don’t deny it! haha he’s a great guy. (97% of the time haha.. he’s gonna murder me.)

I hope you have a great week coming, and all your image info is below… (female only)

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I hope that you have enjoyed this post!



Shape | So Hawt SL – Shapes |  Heart (Catwa) | WIP

Body | Maitreya | Body – Lara V4.1

Head | Catwa | Catya | New Release | Sponsored Store

Ears | Swallow |  Elf Ears

Skin | Glam Affair | Raquel [ Catwa ] | collabor88 | July 2018 | Sponsored Store

Eyes | AG. | Silky Eyes – Black

Hair | Tableau Vivant | Paula | Uber | June 2018 | Sponsored Store

Nailpolish | DP – Koffin Nails | FatPack – Summertide Shine (Boxed) | Sponsored Store


Top | Vinyl |  Kygo Off Shoulder | Fameshed | July 2018 | Sponsored Store

Pants | Vinyl | Traveler

Boots | Wicca’s Wardrobe | Valkyrie | Sponsored Store
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Cups | Zombie Suicide | Tired Gacha | Pocket Gacha | June 2018 | Sponsored Store


Poses | Purple Poses | 236/235/806/808 | collabor88 | July 2018 | Sponsored Store

Background | taikou | gaien market backdrop w.o materials (lights on)

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