I am not ready…

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I am not ready

Winter is coming….
no.. really.. it is..

It has been snowing all day here.

It’s coming and it’s HERE!

I am going back to bed…

Maybe when I wake up… it will be spring…

Oh, before I go..
I wanted to remind everyone of one simple fact.

Second Life is NOT Real Life..

No matter how much some of us want it too be..
I personally would not trade my family in RL for anyone or anything…

Second Life is suppose to be fun and relaxing.

Blogging is suppose to be enjoyable.

I know I have said something to the effect of this message before but,
I guess it has not reached as many people as I wished it would so,
I will say it now and hopefully will never have to again.

I know some people manage their time being as an example, 50% rl and 50% SL or,
whatever the mix.

For me, REAL LIFE is 100%.
With Second Life being a pass time..
Something I do in my spare time.

My real life will -Always- come first.

I need people to understand this.

And my real life time doesn’t come with a disclosure or a time table.
Sometimes, I will not be able to get online, and yes this means events, that I blog for may suffer.
However, if you follow my blog you know that I MORE then make up for this.

I go out of my way to attempt not to let people down but,
it IS going to happen.

And either, how I make up for it is good enough or,
it just isn’t but, making me feel bad about choosing my RL over SL..
that doesn’t mesh well with me.

I will continue to do my best.
Blogging, friendships, all of it..
but, please respect that my RL is not on a time able and never,
ever, will I choose SL over my children or my health.

I am sorry for the gripe but, if you are a blogger…
or a designer even that has faced the same issues, then
you likely can appreciate what I am saying.

That all being said…

I love blogging, I love the people that I have met..
And, thank you for accepting me the way I am..

And now for your regularly scheduled styling info!


Skin | -Glam Affair – | Lauren skin – Jamaical 03 | Aida Ewing | @Uber (Nov. 2014)

Hair | *ARGRACE* | UREI – Russet | rika Oyen |  New Release

Eyes | Izzie’s | Demon Eyes and Horns | Izzie Button | @Uber (Nov 2014)

Nail Polish | The White Armory | Halloween | Bee Dumpling | Free Gift

Lashes Set 1 |  Maxi Gossamer | Wild Full Thick – BLACK | Maxi Gossamer

Hands | Slink |  AvEnhance Hands Female – Splayed | Siddean Munro |

Ears | MANDALA | ELF EARS SImple | kikunosuke Eel |

Booty: N/A

Shape | So Hawt SL Shapes | Erotigacha Exclusive – Eli Rare – Morgana Hilra | @Erotigacha (Nov. 2014)


Top | SeVered GarDeN | Ecate |  Berta Avro |

Shorts | DeeTaleZ | Mesh Mini Shorts | steffi villota |


Dog | [geek.] | Sheldon’s Sugar-High – Demon Rare | jada tigerpaw | @TAG (Oct. 2014)


Socks | JD | High Socks | davidefre |  Group Gift


Various Poses | Ma Vie | Mavi Beck



  1. i agree 100 percent with you. I have a blog that i enjoy writing my second life thoughts and feelings. I am not obligated to pitch any designers wears, and I no longer list what I am wearing, because this is my blog not theirs. I enjoy your tutorials, and they are always so helpful. I have been in SECOND LIFE for six years and I am a total loner. People have let me down, so I wonder the virtual world alone. Wishes sometimes I had someone to share my experiences with, but
    why should my SL be any different from my RL, I am a loner in it as well, and I am the same person in both worlds. I have maintained my parcel, enjoying decorating, and wondering around enjoying MY SECOND LIFE! Seems bloggers are abundent as are DJ’s, and Photographers. I enjoy your blog and Strawberry Singh’s Blog the best, you both are sweethearts which comes through in your words on your blogs. So darling. Have a wonderful Life…enjoy and don’t give one thought to what other people think.

    Your fan …Majik

    • Thank you for your comment.
      I enjoy blogging but, I hate when it feels like I have let people down.
      It hurts to see that someone is pissed at me.
      I try so hard.. but, there comes a time where I need to be more in my rl then SL.
      But, I will still try to do my blogging.
      I hope that you come out of your shell and have fun hun. xx

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