There are times… when.. blogging is… so hard to do..
I sometimes have real life issues that pull me away from, Second Life… and honestly.. when it is REAL LIFE… it will always come before anything in Second Life.. blogging.. friends.. family.. everything.. because, here is the thing.. if were to DIE because of an illness in RL that I did not take care of because someone in, Second Life pressured me to follow through with my obligations in world… then the blogs would not ever get posted..
I know that is dramatic… but, you would be surprised at some of the things people have said to me.. actually.. if your a blogger.. I am 1000% sure that you know exactly what I am talking about….
Sometimes.. I just have alot going on … personal stuff in Second Life.. and things have to come together slowly.. but, they always do..
And sometimes.. just like anyone else.. I have writers block.. or, photographers block..
And, as above.. everything always works out in the end…
Instead of, flipping out on me (yes, ppl HAVE done it.. badly), and sending me hate mail (or ims if the case be).. talk too me… not at me..
I have always tried my hardest to make everyone happy..
This blog is suppose to make ME happy as well.. and sometimes… I don’t know what is wrong with alot of people.
It is like they think they are the only ones in SL.. and that their bidding must be done, ASAP.. or else.. and I know, with the groups I signed up with, that I have obligations…
Problem is.. sometimes, I am accused of not blogging.. when I clearly have.. and the only reason that the people accuse me of this is because, THEY did not check my blog before contacting me..
I try to remember to always send the designers a link to the post.. but, sometimes, it is a bit hard to remember with everything else going on.
I always describe what I am wearing. Put all the info below with URL’s to each place.
I do alot more then I have seen other bloggers do.. not saying their blogs are not great because they are… personally, I just like to have the URL so I know where to go.
Also… telling that you love my photos is great… but, then in the same paragraph cut up my recent photos.. is not really the most polite thing to do when I am finished writing my whole post, and there is no time for me to go back and redo the photos…. I mean, if the person were the designer then, OK.. but the person that did this.. had nothing to do with any of that post.. like, at all..
It just really hurt.. and I wish that people would think, before they speak..
Like.. “gee.. I wonder is I royally rip into this person about her ugly photos, if she would care…”
I am sure that is not what they meant… but that is how it came across..
I do my best.
If my best is not good enough… well… I am not going to say sorry.. it is not fair, for me to have to apologize for trying my best.
And I am SURE, once they see that I did indeed write about this incident, I will likely be removed from their group.. which would be a sad thing too do because, honestly.. it is not like I said their name… and no, I will not tell anyone, so Please so not ask me.
I am truly thankful for the groups, and designers that send me items to blog.
And I THINK I have done a good job at blogging those items.
If my photos were THAT bad.. I am sure a designer would let me know.
I know this post.. is not like my normal ones.. it is just.. alot has been going on in my RL.. AND my SL… and it has been hard.. this blog is the only tranquility I find lately… and I would be heart broken if people started to punish me, (like they have been), because my RL has been too hard for me to be around much..
Or, that once in a while.. I speak my mind about how people treat me… or others for that matter..
I love blogging.. I love taking photos.. and I LOVE TO SHOP!
I really hope that I did not offend anyone as, this was meant as a post for ME to explain a few things, and express MY feelings…
I am not a bad person.. please, just give me a chance.
I wanted to share a “LOOK OF THE NIGHT/DAY” with you, that I think you would enjoy…
So, here it is.. and all the outfit info will be posted below.
Thank you again for reading.. and also thank you to all the designers that understand, RL comes before SL.. and the ones that do not punish me for it.
Complete Outfit: .:GSpot:. Desert Rose Aqua